The Square · An Aesopic fable
The North Wind and the Sun

The North Wind and the Sun were arguing about which of them was stronger.
A traveller passed below, wrapped in a cloak.
They agreed: whoever could make him remove it would win.

The Wind went first.
It blew fiercely. But the traveller gripped his cloak. Every stronger gust made him pull it closer.
At last, the Wind gave up.

Then the Sun began to shine.
As the air grew warmer, the traveller loosened his cloak.
A little later, he took it off.
Reflection
The harder the wind pushed, the more tightly the traveller held on. In our relationships, pressure can deepen resistance; a calmer approach may make it easier for someone to reconsider.
Gentleness can reach where force cannot.
Alrewaq