The Quiet Window · A parable from Zhuangzi
The Empty Boat

Imagine a man crossing a river in a small boat.
Another boat drifts towards him and strikes his vessel.
He looks across.
The boat is empty.
Although he is quick-tempered, he does not become angry.

Now imagine the same collision—but someone is sitting in the other boat.
He calls out for them to steer away.
No answer.

He calls again.
Still no answer.
Soon, he is shouting in anger.

The same river. The same collision.
But now he believes someone is ignoring him.
Reflection
Sometimes, what troubles us is not only what happened, but what we believe was meant by it.
Alrewaq